“99% of what happens to relationships is annoyance. The solution to annoyance is acceptance.” - Bo Sanchez
I’ve learned that a person cannot change another person. Not even love. If a person wants to change, he or she will do it for himself/herself. It’s out of self-love. Opting to change someone is disrespectful. It’s like wishing they were not even born. Changing ourselves is hard enough, why expect someone to do it so easily?
That’s why if you don’t like someone for everything he or she is. Better leave them. Save yourself. Give yourself some lovin’.
If they’re your relatives, it’s either you accept and love them as is, or love them from a distance.